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Teenagers’ lives are tough? You don’t say. And neither do they. Learn how to break the silence, and turn parent/teen alienation into communication.

Every teenager keeps secrets. And every parent worries that those secrets could lead to dangerous or risky behavior. In this clear-eyed guide to keeping pace, and peace, with teens today, authors Lippincott and Deutsch – one an educator, the other a psychologist, both parents – offer a deceptively simple plan to break down those barriers based on three clear rules: Teens need to stay safe, show respect, and keep in touch. The key? Keep the conversation going. How? By understanding that there are things in adolescent life that, like acne and attitude, are part of the landscape. Teenagers won’t tell you that their brains are going haywire, that risk is seductive, and that what they see in the mirror is distorted. But these are the real truths that govern adolescents’ lives.

In this groundbreaking book, the authors offer effective and conversational strategies  designed to avoid the dead-ends and pitfalls that plague most parent-teen interactions. Tough but optimistic, this valuable guide is a must-have for any parent of a teenager.

THE SEVEN THINGS

  1. Their Brains Are to Blame
  2. Truth Is as Malleable as Their Friday Night Plans
  3. Controlling Them Is Not the Point
  4. Their Mirrors Are Distorted
  5. Friends Don't Matter as Much as We May Think
  6. When We Say "No", They Hear Maybe
  7. Taking Risks Gives Them Power

THE THREE RULES OF PLAY

  • Stay safe
  • Show respect
  • Keep in touch

CLICK HERE to see the authors on the today show! (N.B. the authors names are reversed in this clip)

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